Soul mates, Soul killers, or Soul saviours.

"People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. 

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life….”

 Elizabeth Gilbert, EAT, PRAY AND LOVE.

I agree 100%. Though they kill your soul, they did something good for you. The most important part of your love experiences is after the passage of the Soulmate! You find yourself in a position where you don't believe in love anymore, or you don't want to. You hate him (at least that's what you wished to feel, you try hard). You tear all the pictures, clean out your hard drive, for some, fuck with anyone that comes around, pretend that everything is okay when one asks you how you are dealing with the situation.

Ok, pride is a good thing but in some situations you gotta let go, cry baby cry! Let your tears flow, especially if it was the soul mate thing! At this right moment your pain is so bad that you are unable to see how your soul mate, soul killer is actually your soul savior.

Let me explain this to you. You grew up thinking you will find a perfect match with whom you dreamed of a house, and kids playing in the garden. You dreamed of a man that is going to take care of you and your kids, a man you are going to admire, love and cherish. You met your soul mate, you planned all that, it all seemed so natural, and of course it seemed natural, you are soul mates!

Suddenly, you guys break up. I think that you just have been given a chance to work for it. You are given a chance to value your dreams and given the strength to make them come true.

By killing both your souls (breaking up!), you just gave each other a chance for rebirth.

Soul mates are soul saviors because they provide strength, enlightenment and give you the key to a different life.

Prepare yourself for love, you can make it if you work on it, and you can be surprised. There is not only one person that can make you happy, don't remain stuck on myths, or clichés, let yourself go for something new. 

 

The New Year's Eve Turmoil didn't knock at my door this year, is it ok?

Bored by the New Year's Eve.

  Each year it's the same; people get so excited about what they will be doing on the New Year's Eve.I used to be like that too,but I have just come to realize that there is nothing we do on the particular day, that is different from the other party weekends. At first I got worried, because everyone around was shocked by me staying home alone. But I have come to accept this, I love being a lonely outcast sometimes!

  I have always been the kinda person who loved organizing parties, cooking and having a great meal, and drink some wine. I love doing this each time I can, or when we gather with some friends I haven't seen for long.

  This year for the New Year's eve, I didn't even think about what I was going to be doing. It appeared to me that I felt like doing nothing. But, just stay in my house alone, read if I want to, listen to some music and sleep. Some people found this shocking. And some friends told me to move my @$$ and get the party started. I personally think that it is okay, there is nothing absolutely special on this day, you can party anytime.

  What I find lame are the people who go shopping on the 31st December and buy beautiful night dresses, wear them and return them to the store the day on the 2nd January. And go to the clubs, blow money they don't have yet! I have seen this in the US. Hey people just take it easy, put on something you already have, don't waste your money and time on a single night to impress your friends. There is no red carpet tonight! I am just saying!

 In France, it's more about getting drunk in some areas, and in others it's similar to the US (especially in the black community where some women are ready to do whatever it takes to get all the attention).

Three reasons why it is OK not to get into this effervescence of the New Year's Eve:

1. Save money from buying the tie, the shoes, dress or jewelry (even though cheap jewelry).
2. Lots of your friends will get drunk on that specific day, and will be singing stupid songs, puking etc... And and if you are not in the same state of mind, there is nothing worst than pretending.
3. Think about it; each year you get excited but it ends up being an average night, even some other Saturdays were better.

Don't pressure yourself. BE YOU.

Delirium of an Infiltrated Outcast ?

Hey World!

I just realized that I am an infiltrated outcast, don't ask me what it means, I am trying to figure it out myself through the stories I will be sharing here.

Welcome to the my Delirium!